10 Things I Gay about You
Lust vs. Love (A Gay Man's Guild to Finding Mr. Right now, or Mr. Right for a life)
Mr. Right, Mr. Right Now, Never Both.
What do you think? What would make a good title for a book. He's the start of it...
This started as a love/regret letter to any guy I’ve ever kissed to fallen in love with. Then a tell all about being the same person walking into a bar in the gay mecca of the Midwest both overweight, as a twink, and back again and how the exact same men treated me quite differently when they thought I was someone else entirely. Now it’s really a plea to gay men to just stop tearing each other down because those same men Are at the bar each and every night for years and years… Here’s to having a few less drinks and a few more genuine connections.
I’ve been young, I’ve (apparently) been old, see currently, at the “over the gay hill” age of 30. I’ve been beyond overjoyed and dearly near death depressed with bipolar depression disorder. #RemoveTheStigma. #MeToo #YeahIUsedThatHashtag. I’ve been overweight, underweight, overweight, skinny #twink, and yet again overweight. I’ve experienced the same guys not give me the time of day to wanting to have one night stands in a heartbeat 100% based on my current look, not on my own intrinsic value. I’ve had incredible relationships with beautiful men of all races and backgrounds and I’ve had terrible ones full of verbal abuse, and HIV scares from cheating men. Sometimes the incredible and terrible relationships ended up being one in the same. If any of this sounds familiar to you, this book is dedicated to you.